I been in a long distance relationship for almost 9 years now and i know we won't be together any time soon cuz we both have a younger family member we are taken care of. That doesn't really bug me because we made it this far i know we can keep going & yes we do have plans to be together one day but the problem is here; two months ago he cheated on me and i havent talked to him till last night and he told me how it was a mistake and he does wanna be with me and love's me and i love him too and i still wanna be with him so would i be dumb if i took him back? How can i trust him again? And how can i learn to forgive him and they to move past all the hurt? I'm really lost i love him so much and wanna make it work. We been together since i was 12 and he was 14, I'm 21 now.
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A reader needs some advice, please read....
I have been married for twenty yrs. 21 on 12/15/2012......I heard rumors of him having an affair confronted them both and on November 7, 2012.."I finally got the truth. He posted pics of the dead baby in the coffin all over his facebook page. I was on the phone with him....my friends were textn and calln to tell me. I am beyond hurt!!!! We havent spoken since that day. He wont answer my texts or calls....what do I do?
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A reader is hurting and needs some words of encouragement...
The man that I love with all of my heart has left me for someone else and it hurts like hell...due to the fact that he was locked up for a year after biting my face and i forgave him and stood by him and now that hes getting out in 20 days he said he doesnt love me or have feelings for me, but thanks for everything but he has found someone new....so i have a feeling of failure within me but i know that somehow i got to get stronger because i have 3 kids who mean the world to me...
I cant stop the tears and feelings of what have I done? I had to call the police the day he bit me in the face because i just couldnt have just let go? I just thought he would change and our relatlionship would have gotten stronger but it didnt it fell apart he blames me for losing 365 days of his life but he has been locked up before and he has 3 daughters and he used to beat up his baby mamas but they never call the police and by me doing it does it make me a bad person? why do i feel so guilty and miserable and hes just so happy and looking foward to start a new life with his new love? he has destroyed my self esteem.
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The big problem with the people who make others smile is that even if they say they don't expect others to make them smile, somewhere in their heart they feel hurt to see others not care for them as much as they care for others. But since they are always supposed to be smiling and look happy, they carry on with the pretence of making the world think they are happy, when they actually might be feeling sad and low from within.
Maybe not everybody, but there definitely need to be some people or somebody whom one is open and honest with. Somebody with whom one shares their personal thoughts and sorrows with. Somebody who truly gets to know the real you and relieves you of the pain within.
Look for this somebody or be sure to confide in somebody whom you can trust. And if you see somebody around you who smiles and laughs a little more than usual, be sure to check with the person if s/he truly is happy from within :)
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